Unleash the Authentic Woman in You – Faey Szeuw

“Whether you realize it or not, you are directly or indirectly responsible for everything that happens to you!”
-Harold Sherman’s Your Key to Happiness

Success habits to work on consistently everyday:
(Brian Tracy’s Million Dollar Habits)

1. Visualize the outcome you want. “If you see yourself as confident and successful prior to meeting a new person, applying for a job,or making a presentation that is how you will perform in the actual situation…One of the most important habits you can develop is the habit of feeding your mind before every important situation with positive pictures and images of yourself performing at your very best. Take a few moments, as athletes, politicians, and performers do, and imagine yourself as if you were outstanding at what you were about to do. Hold that picture in your mind for as long as you possibley can. Then, relax and let it go. Later, when you find yourself in the situation, your subconscious mind will remember the picture and give you the words, actions and gestures that correspond exactly to the picture you created a short time before.” (p.19)

2. Treat and like yourself better.
“One of the most important habits you can develop is the habit of talking to yourself positively most of the time. And the most positive words that you can use throughout the day, especially prior to any event of importance or significance, are the words
“I like myself!” You can not say  these words to yourself without feeling happier, expecially if  you repeat them emotionally and emphatically. Every time you say “I like myself!” your self-esteem goes up. As your self-esteem increases, you feel more positive and optimistic. You become eager to set bigger goals and face greater challenges. The more you like yourself, the greater courage and confidence you have. The more you like yourself, the less your fears and doubts get in your way or interfere with your success. And you get all the benfits of self-esteem enhancement by continually repeating ” I like myself!” (p.21-22)”

3. Concentrate on what you want
“What you think about most of the time increases. More and more of your emotions and mental energies become focused and concentrated on what you are dwelling upon. The more you think about your goals and how to accomplish them , the faster you will move toward them. You will focus more of your emotional energy on them, and you will havel ess energy available for the problems, worries, and concerns that preoccupy most people…Your conscious mind can only hold one thought at a time, either positive or negative. You may be capable of thinking hundreds of thoughts in a row, but you can only think of one thought at a time. And you are always free to choose that thought. An essential success habit is the habit of keeping your mind focused clearly on the person you want to be, the goals you want to achieve, and the steps you must take to achieve those goals.” (p.29)

Thought this will help some of you out there. Certainly did so for me. =)