Single? Listen up. This might help. These little neat ideas is not mine, I’m simply sharing it because I think it will put the clue back in the clueless mind for those who haven’t come to this realization yet.

You could use it or discard it. What ever you choose, you are the master of your own universe. If you see it’ll help you out on attracting a better girlfriend, by all mean try it out.

These can work miracles in your love life.

A few things I’ve learned from Authentic Man Program (AMP) a while back is the power of presence works wonders. It helps you stay aware and present in whatever you do. Takes practice to hone this skill. Just like learning to ride a bike, it’ll take many attempts before you become comfortable and skilled at it. Presence essentially helps you stay in your body and enjoy the moment as it happen. I guess you can say, keep your mind quiet and still. Whether if it is for dating or for your daily life, definitely, staying present and grounded is an attractive attribute to women –actually to everyone.

Have you ever talked to someone and their attention is everywhere. Getting distracted and can’t even focus on the conversation or the experience at the moment. Their eyes wandered and their mind seems far off somewhere.

A man who can master his own mind; bring awareness and presence into his being is considered a rare commodity for women. Definitely, becoming more aware and present is of a great value. We (women) know and can pick a solid guy out from a mile away. It’s extremely attractive and undeniably sexy!

Second thing that bring wonders to your life is to stay appreciative. What is appreciation? Here’s what Authentic Man Program (AMP) has to say about it, “Most guys think Appreciation is saying nice things. This couldn’t be farther from the truth. In fact, “Creating Profound Connections” has absolutely nothing to do with even being nice. It’s all about building a strong, deep level of rapport… an emotional connection that you cannot fake. ”

Everyone wants to be appreciated and acknowledged. Basically, you practice being appreciative for all the small things in your life. Stay in gratitude for what you have and not what you don’t have.

Man, do they work like magic. People can feel when you are being genuinely appreciative of them. A smile is a great start. It’s contagious in a good way.

When you stay in the state of appreciation, most women will reciprocate your state of emotion and shoot back those same great feeling. It’s a yummy feeling at both ends.

Have you ever got a genuine sincere acknowledgment from a person. They say it in such a way that you know it is from their heart. They really meant it and not just one of those generic, “Thank you. Come again.” from the cashier’s mouth. You can somehow tell the difference which appreciation is genuine or not.

Practice these two new habits and master them. You will not only attract a better mate but bring more wonders into your life. You’ll turn many frowns around. Stay grounded in who you are. And bring quality experiences into your life far more than just the original goal of acquiring a girlfriend.

The only downfall is these two simple new habits take time to be integrated into your life. It takes dedication and work. Even for me, I am still working on ‘staying present and being appreciative.’ It’s really a daily practice. You actually have to do it and gain the experience for yourself to truly understand and incorporated it into your life.

Learn it, KNOW it, walk it, and you’ll be surprise how much more amazing your life can get.

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As we wake up to each day. Remember to stay appreciative of the gifts we receive. Just being alive and granted this time –this very moment itself is a joy to be grateful for. Staying appreciative for all the small things makes life so much sweeter. So much more fulfilling. Always smile for the life. Live and Love.

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Got bad habits you need to break? Helpful article from T Mcdonald showing you 5 simple steps to changing an unwanted habit.

Breaking Bad Habits – 5 Simple Steps for Changing a Habit

By T Mcdonald

“Good habits are hard to develop but easy to live with” and “Bad habits are easy to develop but hard to live with”, according to Brian Tracy, a well-known motivational teacher. You may recognize that to successfully manage habit changes, breaking bad habits may be required in order to develop new ones.

Breaking bad habits takes at least 21 days. Of course, in difficult cases, it can take as long as a year. Here’s an example of the process of how to change an unhealthy habit to a healthy habit. Suppose you’ve decided that coffee is not good for you and right now, you drink coffee with sugar daily. The new habit you would like to institute is to drink herbal tea without sugar.

At first, it may be challenging to break the bad habit of drinking coffee. You will have to use self-discipline for the first few weeks but gradually it will get easier. Once you are able to change the old habit to a new healthier one, it will serve you very well. Habits are remarkable because they don’t require thinking. You just “do it” for years until you find yourself changing the habit again.

Here are 5 easy steps for changing habits:

1. Awareness: You must become aware of your habits. What is this habit exactly? How is this bad habit or group of bad habits affecting you? How is this habit affecting others? For example, smoking often has negative effects on others as well as on you.

2. Wanting to Change: As someone with a health problem, you must decide that breaking bad habits through a conscious effort is a worthy goal. You must convince yourself that the change in the habit is worth the effort involved.

3. Commitment: You must be determined to do whatever it takes for breaking bad habits so that you can better control your life. You make a decision that “no matter what” you will change the habit. You do the work required to stop. Here are some examples of habits you might want to change: Smoking, eating too much, eating processed foods, not exercising, drinking coffee or other beverages with caffeine in them, eating too much sugar or fat, drinking alcohol, procrastinating, etc.

4. Consistent Action: It is important to focus on changing just one habit at a time. Then, take consistent daily actions for breaking the bad habit that has been causing problems and take the actions to develop a new one. We suggest doing this process one step at a time rather than trying to do it all at once. Sometimes changing a habit can be done “cold turkey” like smoking and sometimes it works better to make a gradual change.

Be sure to give yourself positive rewards often for taking small actions toward changing a bad habit. Continual day-by-day actions are what are critical. This is NOT about an occasional action or step. It is about being consistent every day.

5. Perseverance: There will be times when you question whether it is all worth it. You’ll say to yourself that breaking these bad habits is too difficult; that you are too “weak” to change. Your old self, often so comfortable living with the bad habits, is trying to hold on. Breaking your old patterns may require meditation and prayer.

Visualize regularly the rewards for following through and the costs of not following through on breaking the bad habits and especially the value to your future of building new better habits.

Get support from others, especially other people who want to make changes in their lives and read about people who have been successful in breaking bad habits. Affirm that, no matter what, you will not backslide into your old bad habit patterns.

Now, you are armed with a 5-step process for breaking any bad habit or other condition that requires changing. If you have an addiction to something such as alcohol, these steps alone may not be enough. You may require additional professional help or a support group, but for most cases this 5-step process will do the trick!

T. McDonald is a lifelong student of inner growth and a writer. She edits Diabetes Guide where you will find information on the glycemic index diet, weight loss, diets, managing diabetes, alternative sweeteners, breast cancer bracelets, how to prevent breast cancer and much more.

Copyright 2005 T. McDonald

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Another amazing video from the www.ToneItUp.com. Tone up your ab with Katrina Hodgson and Karena Dawn in this fun beach workout video.

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Today, I want to introduce you to the fitness dynamic duo, Katrina and Karena from www.ToneItUp.com. Katrina Hodgson is a certified personal trainer and Karena Dawn is a fitness coach and a sports model.

The video above is one of my favorite. In it, they’ll show you how to tone up your thighs with these equipment-free thigh and leg workout. Tone up your thighs with this workout 3 times a week.

Have fun and enjoy!

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Push-UpsA while back, I enrolled myself in a fitness bootcamp created by two ex-marine guys. It was quite an experience. I had a lot of fun despite some of the ridiculously looking exercises we were asked to do.

That intense 6 week program was tough but it delivered what it said it will. We were all in better shape than when we first started! We did most of the exercises mentioned below minus the handstand push-ups. The most odd looking one was when we bear crawled outside on the park grass. You should have seen the faces of the onlookers passing by. Confused and baffled by our ‘army’ exercises.

You don’t need to enrolled in a fitness bootcamp like I did to learn about these cool intense workouts.  Here are some neat body weight exercises from Jason Oh to get you working out anywhere you go. No gym needed.

As one of my drill instructor love to say, “NO EXCUSES!”

7 Bodyweight Exercises For Extraordinary Strength

By Jason Oh

Listed below are 7 bodyweight exercises that can be done at home to improve strength and endurance.

  1. Bear Crawls: Get down on all fours and ‘crawl’ or walk around like a bear. Bear crawl for three to five minutes to work the entire body. You may look silly, but this movement should not be overlooked.
  2. Spiderman Push-Ups: One of the harder push-ups. Assume a normal push-up position and as you lower your body to the floor, bring your knee to your elbow. Return to the normal push-up and repeat for the other knee. Repeat this 10 times.
  3. Lunges: Stand with feet close together. With hands on your hips, step forward with one leg into a deep lunge, whilst keeping the other leg straight. Push yourself back up and repeat with the other leg.
  4. 1 Leg Squat: One of the best leg exercise that you can do with your bodyweight. This will make you become more stable and challenge your leg strength, endurance, balance and agility. In a standing position, raise one leg out as straight as possible in front of you, and squat down on one leg until your thigh touches your calf. Thereafter, return to the starting position on the same leg. For extra balance, hold your arms straight out. For beginners, try to get your thighs parallel to the floor. And as your strength increase, get down as low as possible.
  5. Squats: In a standing position, squat down until your thighs touches your calf. It may sound easy, but try to doing this 100 times!
  6. Opposite Elbow Touch: In a push up position, bend one arm at the elbow to a 90 degree position and touch the opposite arm. Return to the original position and repeat for the other arm.
  7. Handstand Push-Ups: Try this against a wall and get into a handstand against the wall with your legs straight up. Whilst looking forward in a handstand position, lower yourself to the floor and when your head touches the floor, push yourself back up to the starting position. Try doing this 5 times, and if you find it difficult initially, try to hold in a handstand position for 60 seconds.

The above bodyweight exercises are great for both women and men.

To mix it up more, try a combination of upper and lower bodyweight exercises without rest. That is, 10 ‘Spiderman Push-Ups’ reps followed immediately with 10 ‘1 leg squat’ on each leg. Rest for 60 seconds and repeat.

Do this –you will build strength and burn fat fast.

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Grilled Food by ThornsaStill having a hard time loosening your tight grip on those fried foods? And still want to change your  lifestyle to a more healthy one? Maybe you just need a little direction on where to begin. Well you are in luck. Here are some good tips I found from Will C. to help you get started. (Although, I wouldn’t recommend microwaving as an option. It destroys the food.)

Losing Weight – Tips on Watching What You Eat

By Will C.

If you are an overweight adult you are probably eating too much and by this I mean more than you require. A human body only needs a certain number of calories and when this is exceeded, you will gain weight. A few facts will be focused on at this point.

A fact that you are overweight means that your heart has to work even harder to pump blood all around your body. This extra pressure from doing this can cause a lot of wear and tear on your heart and blood-vessel system. Many people who are overweight for a long time develop high blood pressure or diabetes, which are both risk factors for heart disease. Studies show that in the last 10 years there has been an increase in the number of people who are overweight or obese. Obesity damages our hearts and our joints. So, if you are overweight, taking action now will help prevent you from continually to be obese and give you a better chance of living a longer life.

One should not involve themselves in a very intensive diet but in fact should follow a well planned out weight loss plan for life or a long extended period of time instead of a rapid program which will trigger the body to resist the weight loss by thinking that is in a starvation period and thus hold on to the fat with an even stronger grip. It is not advised that you should stop eating the regular meals but instead lower the quantity bit by bit so as not to shock the body. An Intensive diet might make the body drain the energy from the fat and also the muscles thus making you weak and drowsy.

When one talks of food the first thing that pops up is cooking. To be healthy and lose weight in a safe way one needs to engage in low-fat cooking which to some is very hard as they are used to the fat which makes food taste “better”. One should consider cooking a good meal which is also healthy. Some of the things one should consider are stated below:

  • Oven-bake, grill, boil, poach, stir-fry or microwave food instead of frying it.
  • Boil, steam, dry-roast or bake potatoes instead of having chips.
  • Try a light cooking spray instead of cooking oil.
  • Cut all visible fat off meat and take the skin off chicken
  • Drain fat off meat and sauces when they are cooked.
  • Choose tomato-based sauces instead of creamy sauces for pasta and rice dishes.

The above mentioned meal cooking techniques will help you eat healthier yet tasty meal at all times. It is also important to note that the regularity of the meals should also be watched to get the best results for your efforts. One should ensure to have eaten at least 4 hours before going to sleep in the evening and have an average of 3-4 meals a day. As for any weight loss regime, be sure to check with you doctor before you making any drastic changes to your exercise or diet regime.

Will C is a fitness fanatic and has battle childhood obesity. All this hard work has paid off and he hopes to share it with everyone. He is also a home improvement junkie and has a website on kitchen unit doors.

Click here to get more Healthy Weight Loss Advice. And watch a short informative FREE video exposing the UGLY truth behind today’s food.  Learn what kinds of  food to avoid.

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andrea albrightToday we have a very special guest writer. Welcome Andréa Albright. Andréa is the author of a free weekly weight loss and health newsletter, and the eBook “How To Lose Weight By Feeding And Nourishing Your Spirit“. She  graduated with a degree in Biology and is also a certified yoga instructor.

Here are some very useful tips she put together to help you out when you’re at a party. It’s not just tips for holiday parties. It’s for anywhere you go that has lots of delicious food temptations!

How To Eat Healthy At A Holiday Party

By Andrea Albright

Everyone loves a good holiday party. It’s a great time to socialize with your friends and celebrate the season, but many people at this time of year give up on trying to lose weight and use it as an excuse to “pig out” (and by pig out, I mean eat WAY too much). This can leave you feeling guilty the next day and make it harder to lose weight because you’ll be fighting against intense sugar cravings and extra pounds long after the partying is over.

There is a way to enjoy the holiday season and celebrate with your friends, family and loved ones without “pigging out” and then feeling guilty the next day. Follow these tips and you’ll be way ahead of yourself when you make your New Year’s commitment to lose weight.

1. Eat right before you arrive.

You know that there will be lots of high-calorie, highly processed foods at the holiday party… and those are the foods you are trying to avoid in order to lose weight. If you’ve gone more than 2 hours without eating, you are going to be in the “desperation zone” where your body is going to be desperate for calories. When you are in this desperate state, is almost impossible to resist the high-calorie, highly processed foods.

When you eat a meal with low-fat protein, a slow-burning carb, and lots of vegetables right before you leave home, you will arrive full and be able to resist those foods that you know you don’t really want to eat (and only leave you feeling guilty for eating them). If you don’t have time to eat a full meal, eat a piece of fruit and a handful of raw nuts. This will keep you full for at least 2 hours and out of the “desperation zone.” This way, you will have conscious control over the foods you choose to eat.

2. Eat 3 or 4 meals that day.

When you eat throughout the day, you are less likely to pig out at night. This is especially important when you are going to a holiday party. That means that if the party starts in the late afternoon or evening, you should eat a healthy, natural breakfast with protein and a slow burning carbohydrate (egg whites and oatmeal are my favorite), and then a 2nd meal such as a protein shake with berries, and maybe even a 3rd meal such as a green salad with salmon and brown rice.

Many people skip breakfast and starve themselves early in the day in order to “save up” for all the calories they want to eat later that night. Well, this actually makes things worse because if your body is deprived of calories, it will think that there is a shortage of food around. And as soon as you do eat something, your body will store those calories as fat.

Eating small, natural meals throughout the day actually speeds up your metabolism because it keeps your blood levels stable. When your blood sugar shoots up too high, you store fat and when it dips down too low, you have INTENSE cravings because your body needs calories NOW. Eating throughout the day keeps you energized and alert, and it signals to your body that, “Food is everywhere. I don’t need to store fat.”

When you eat every 2-3 hours (5 or 6 meals a day) STARTING as soon as you wake up, this keeps your blood sugar levels stable and keeps you from craving high-calorie, processed foods later in the day. If you’ve already had 2 or 3 meals BEFORE you arrive at the party, you will have A LOT more control over the desire to eat all that fattening food that is bound to be there, and the foods you DO eat are less likely to get stored on your butt.

3. Walk around the spread of food before you fill your plate.

Be on the lookout for healthy options and ask what the ingredients are in every dish. Vegetables are good for you, but if they are covered in butter and cream sauce, they are no longer a healthy option. Find out exactly what healthy choices you have before you decide what you want to eat.

4. Bring your own healthy food with you.

There’s nothing worse than being trapped at a party where the only food available to eat is high-calorie food that you know will send your blood sugar skyrocketing and make you store fat. YOU are in control of your health, and you can’t rely on other people to feed you.

The only way to know FOR SURE that you will stay on track to losing weight and eating healthily is to bring your own food with you. Bring some fruit and a bag of natural, unsalted nuts. This is a great way to get you through your “munching desire” when there are lots of chips and unhealthy snacks around you. Eating crunchy, healthy nuts is just as fun as eating those greasy, fried chips…in fact, it’s MORE fun because you know that they are tasty AND good for you. And if you feel like getting into the holiday spirit, bring a healthy dish or salad for everyone to share. That way you know there will be at least one healthy dish that you can eat. (Plus, you’ll get good karma points for helping other people eat healthily.)

5. Fill up on vegetables and salad first.

Then go back and eat smaller portions of the holiday dishes. You’ll be amazed at how much easier it is to eat only a little bit of the high-calorie, fattening foods when you have the first course of a large salad and vegetables.

6. Avoid the high-calorie drinks.

Nothing adds calories to your diet faster than alcoholic beverages. Any form of alcohol is a “calorie-dense” food. At seven calories per gram, it packs almost twice as many calories as either carbohydrate or protein. And when too many calories hit your system at once, this is what causes your body to secrete insulin and store fat.

This alone is a serious obstacle when you’re trying to lose weight but those bowls of chips and high-calorie snack food and sugar-filled deserts can also be made more tempting when your inhibitions are down. This is where having those HEALTHY snacks you brought along with you will save you from loading up on high-calorie foods just because you have the urge to munch.

If you do choose to indulge and celebrate with some cocktails, be sure to stay away from those high-calorie, sugar-filled mixers and be sure to say “no” to the eggnog. Drink a vodka soda with a twist of lime. And to really cut down on calories, add some sparkling water to your wine. That’s what they do in a lot of European countries and they actually prefer their wine this way. Alternate between a glass of water and an alcoholic drink throughout the celebration, and you will cut your calorie consumption in half and stay in a coherent state that will help you to make healthy choices.

7. Celebrate the holidays and have fun!

Why do you enjoy going to parties? I’m sure you go to parties, like most women, to have fun, let loose and celebrate life with your friends, family and loved ones. So if that’s your main objective, then that’s what you should do. The more engaged you are in good conversation, laughing and enjoying yourself, the less likely you will be hovering around the food, stuffing your face. And the more you are letting loose and having fun, the less likely you will be lured into eating out of boredom.

Think about this… by NOT pigging out, what are you missing out on really? You know what it feels like to pig out and eat way too much of the food you know is bad for you. You know what that momentary instant gratification is all about…is it really that much fun? Is it really worth the guilt and the extra weight gain?

Ultimately, only you can decide. But I have a feeling that you are going to have a much better time enjoying your friends and family than pigging out… again. And then feeling bad about it the next day. Remember WHY you’re there – to celebrate the holidays with the people that are most important to you in your life. So embrace the celebration attitude! Have as much fun as you can… dance, sing, laugh, play games, have deep conversations and intimate moments – really absorb yourself in the celebration of it all.

You have made a commitment to yourself that you are a person who makes healthy choices, but that does not mean that your life has to stop. There IS a way to live a healthy lifestyle and still enjoy the most that this life has to offer…you will find the further down this road you go, that you get MORE enjoyment out of life when you are living and loving with health.

Andrea Albright is the author of “How To Lose Weight By Feeding And Nourishing Your Spirit.” For more great tips on losing weight, leading a healthy and fun lifestyle, and to get her FREE REPORT “Avoid The Top 10 Mistakes Women Make In Losing Weight”, sign up for her FREE newsletter at http://www.amazingbodynow.com/

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Sometimes you can feel a little down for no particular reason. Or maybe you got into an argument with someone or you didn’t get what you wanted. Or perhaps you just woke up on the wrong side of the bed that day. Whatever it is, it’s crucial you get right back up as fast as you can. Not to sit and stay there too long.

Here are a few things you can do to bring yourself up to your higher optimal self. To get yourself feeling better pronto!

12 Things To Do To Keep You Feeling Happy:

  1. Feel your emotions
  2. Meditate
  3. Take deep breaths
  4. Exercise
  5. Sing
  6. Laugh
  7. Go for a nice walk
  8. Connect with nature
  9. Socialize and talk with positive people
  10. Spend time with children or animals
  11. Do something unexpected and nice for someone
  12. Do the things that give you joy

These are just some ideas. There are lots more. And you probably have more of your own on what you do that lifts you up. Whatever it is, as long as it is to your highest good and well-being, do it. Get up and get going. You have too much to live for to be feeling bad.

Be sure to leave me some of your tips below. What are some things you do that lifts your spirit and brings you joy?

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I used to feel ashamed that my passion was getting fit and losing weight. I thought, I was being vain. That this was somehow such a selfish and small goal. That I was mean and I only care about myself. That I should be thinking about saving the world and helping others who are less fortunate than me.

Pink Rose Maybe that is true. I could be seen as selfish and only looking out for number one. But you know what, I realize the more I took care of myself, get my stuff together, and have a better outlook on life by creating and making healthier choices in my life –the more love is receive and flowing from within me. And this love overflows to others: to my family, friends, acquaintances, co-workers, and even strangers. I became more appreciative of things.

Let’s just say, by learning to love myself and take better care of me, my heart was able to shine brightly through without all that clutter in my mind…you know, those self defeating thoughts and doubts that beats you down.

This doesn’t always stay like this. I do get upset, sad, and even angry with the ups and downs life presents. The thing is, I have the option to feel the whole range of emotions and can change if I shall choose. I can feel the feelings that come up and allow it to flow through me. By becoming more aware of what I am feeling, I can do something about it and change. No longer do I feel like I’m a victim to my emotion and be pushed around like a pawn.

There are things I understand more about myself that allow me to bring more of me out and get to my highest optimal state. Move through unnecessary clutters and obstacles. And see the traps and steer away from them. It’s not the doom and gloom I once thought it was.

Your feelings about things can change and you are capable of changing your state. It’s sometimes hard to believe we are such a powerful person capable of sculpting our own life. But we are more amazing than we can ever sometimes believe or imagine.

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